Experienced Counsellor, Psychotherapist and Supervisor in Devon and online

“Therapy is about helping people to understand themselves in a way that gives them more options and degrees of freedom.”

T.Butt, Understanding People, Palgrave, 2004

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There are times in life when things begin to feel unsettled.

You may be struggling with anxiety, grief, relationship difficulties, loneliness, loss, uncertainty, or a growing sense that the life you are living no longer quite fits. Sometimes there is a clear crisis. Sometimes there is simply a quieter feeling that something is wrong, missing, or emotionally exhausting.

People often come to counselling carrying far more than they show outwardly. They may feel overwhelmed by change, burdened by responsibility, emotionally stuck, disconnected from themselves, or unsure how to move forward. Others come because they are trying to make sense of experiences that have shaken long-held beliefs about themselves, relationships, family, work, faith, or the future.

I offer a thoughtful, compassionate, and non-judgemental space in which we can begin to explore these difficulties together.

My approach is relational and reflective rather than prescriptive. I do not believe there is a single “right way” to live, nor that human difficulties can always be reduced to quick techniques or easy answers. Counselling can, however, provide a space where difficult feelings become more understandable, where patterns begin to make sense, and where change gradually becomes possible.

Alongside general counselling work, I have particular experience in areas including:

  • bereavement and complicated grief
  • major life transitions and change
  • caring responsibilities and ageing parents
  • relationship difficulties
  • anxiety and emotional overwhelm
  • questions of identity, meaning, and belonging
  • religious backgrounds, loss of faith, and spiritual uncertainty
  • workplace stress and professional pressures
  • supervision and reflective practice for therapists and helping professionals

I have many years’ experience working therapeutically with adults from a wide range of backgrounds and life experiences. I also work as a clinical supervisor and have a longstanding interest in ethics, relationships, power, and emotional life.

Beginning counselling can feel like a significant step. My hope is to offer a space where you can speak openly, think freely, and feel accompanied rather than judged.

Dr. David Mair - Psychotherapist, counsellor and supervisor in Dawlish, Devon and online
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These are the kind of things my clients say when we meet:

"I keep avoiding things because I get so anxious...I feel like I'm missing out on life."

"Someone I love very much has died. How do I carry on without them?"

"Me and my partner keep arguing: we just can't stop - and I'm thinking about leaving."

"I've struggled with anger all my life: I can't control myself - when the red mist descends, watch out!"

"Sex in our relationship seems to be over... is there anything we can do about it?"

"My mum simply won't accept that I am gay...I feel so helpless."

"I've been feeling low for so long and I'm struggling to see how I can move forward."

"I used to be so certain about my faith - but now I'm not sure anymore."

Each person I meet comes with a different story. I ask: 'What has happened to you?', and not 'What's wrong with you?' Talking and thinking together can help to make sense of why you feel the way you do and help you to develop deeper self-compassion and understanding.

My location

I work with individuals and couples aged 18 and over, usually on a weekly basis or twice a week at my practice in Dawlish, South Devon or Online.

My clients typically come from Dawlish, Exeter, Newton Abbot, Topsham and the surrounding area of South Devon, but you are welcome to contact me wherever you are based. I work online with clients based in other areas of the UK.

Get in touch

To make an appointment to start your counselling sessions in South Devon, please visit the APPOINTMENTS page of this website.


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I also offer supervision to therapists both in Dawlish (South Devon) and online for those further afield. Please contact me for more details and to begin a conversation about working together.


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